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title: 我希望有个乾女儿!
description: 我希望有个乾女儿! 这就是我们养老院其中一位84岁居民，卢伯伯，在挂在“许愿树”的“许愿卡”上写到。“许愿树”是一家公司集团在去年圣诞节帮本养老院设立的。卢伯伯说他希望有一个人能在他感到忧伤时安慰他。卢伯伯的情况并不特殊。虽然一些年长居民希望获得简单的礼物，例如鞋子或衣服，但大多数的愿望不是物质的，
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## A wonderful serenity has taken possession of my entire soul.

## [我希望有个乾女儿!](https://www.stjohneldershome.org.sg/blog/我希望有个乾女儿)

 Date: 06-May-2020

Category: [Aging](https://www.stjohneldershome.org.sg/blog/topic/aging) [Wellness](https://www.stjohneldershome.org.sg/blog/topic/wellness)

# 我希望有个乾女儿!

Posted by [Monica Chia](https://www.stjohneldershome.org.sg/blog/author/monica-chia) on 20-Jan-2020 09:03:00

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这就是我们养老院其中一位84岁居民，卢伯伯，在挂在“许愿树”的“许愿卡”上写到。“许愿树”是一家公司集团在去年圣诞节帮本养老院设立的。卢伯伯说他希望有一个人能在他感到忧伤时安慰他。

卢伯伯的情况并不特殊。虽然一些年长居民希望获得简单的礼物，例如鞋子或衣服，但大多数的愿望不是物质的，而是 “幸福”或有人陪伴。在本养老院，我们的员工非常努力地满足年长居民的日常需求：如营养食品，舒适的环境和干净的衣裳等等。但要满足年长者的情感需求，是一个很大的挑战。不足为奇的是，当日落后，年长者会在宁静的夜晚中感到孤独。

在此，我们邀请有爱心的自愿者成为我们年长居民的朋友，定期拜访他们和建立关系，为他们带来稳定性。当年长者知道有人愿意花时间与他们交谈和聆听，他们将感到极为安慰。

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