Was it not too long ago you chanced upon a family having a meal together?
At first glance, a happy occasion, with three generations gathered together. Then as you observed closer, you noticed the old granny looking away, into the space around her, alone, while her son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren, each in their own world, each busy with their handphones, tablets or game machines.
More frequent still, you bump into couples or friends, close together yet apart. Not having the time to even look up and glance into each other’s eyes, choosing instead to text as this would save a few precious seconds.
Reality struck home not too long ago for me.
I was in a handphone shop, looking around for the latest gadgets and accessories on offer when an old man came in and asked for help.
“Could you help me, please? I think my phone is broken.”
The shop attendant took the phone from him, and after fiddling around with it for some time, declared “There is nothing wrong with this phone, Uncle”.
“Then could you please tell me why my children don’t call me anymore?” replied the old man.
The chatter in the shop quickly fell silent. I was sure that a chord struck each of us there that day.
Don’t let the phrase “Too Late” be the saddest phrase in the English language for you. While you still can, make that call to your family member or friend that you have been putting off time and time again. Find the time to make that visit you have been wanting to for so long, yet have not found the time to do. Life does not remain stagnant around you. A life-changing event could occur at any time in your life. You know not the hour or the place.
Be prepared.
Recently, someone I know very well had a fall, hitting her head and causing her to have difficulty remembering some things as a result. I hope she will regain her complete memory. Although I am troubled that she has to face this setback in her life, I am heeding this wake-up call.
Am I going to let it be “Too Late” for me?
Looking around St. John’s Home, it won’t be difficult to find a Resident in need of a helping hand or listening ear. However small a part we think we could play, setting aside time to sit and interact with an Elder brings meaning and fulfilment.
Make an effort, before its “Too Late”.